From the Editor: The dis-connectional church

Jim Nelson

One thing I have never aspired to in my nearly 20 years as a United Methodist pastor is being elected as a delegate to General Conference. Unfortunately, this year I find myself in the unenviable position of needing to go anyway. Last month I attended the Pre-Conference briefing held in Ft. Worth, Texas, the site of the 2008 Conference for representatives of each delegation and church journalists. That meeting confirmed my suspicions. I felt a major disconnect between what they were telling us would be presented and debated at Conference, and what has been my experience in the local church.

The local church is where faith meets the street. The people in the pews are concerned with the everyday issues of life: grieving over the loss of a loved one, struggling with a family member or close friend in the hospital, dealing with a disabled child, concerned about an alcoholic parent or friends hooked on drugs, wondering what to do about an unwanted pregnancy, worried about a family member in a war zone, and trying to find a balance between spending time at work to care for material needs of their family and spending quality and quantity time at home to care for the spiritual and emotional needs of their family and themselves. The problems people face everyday are the ones they bring into our churches looking for answers and seeking the peace they receive knowing God is with them no matter what.

General Conference however is in a totally different stratosphere. For example, one of the arguments sure to come up in the first few days of Conference is whether or not delegates will have wireless internet access on the floor of the Convention Center so they can stay connected to the outside world. Shouldn’t we be more concerned about how we help our congregations and our communities stay connected to God?Another heated debate looming on the horizon is whether the UM Pension Fund should divest itself of investments in companies doing business in Israel, and in particular Caterpillar, which manufactures equipment used to tear down Palestinian homes and to build the wall which will keep them apart. How many people make a decision about joining or leaving our churches based on the securities held by our pension funds?Now I know I am a cynic, but honestly I can’t believe that in 2008 the leadership of the church finally figured out what our “areas of emphasis” should be as a church. Did they just figure out that our future depends on having passionate, dynamic leadership filled with the Spirit of God and dedicated to doing the work of the Gospel? Or, that if we do not continue to give birth to new congregations as older ones who have reached the natural end of their life close, we will become extinct?

And, did they just realize that the mission of the church should be to work with the poor, and struggle to eliminate diseases in the world that are within our power to eliminate? Didn’t Jesus tell us that 2000 years ago, and weren’t those some of the admonitions God gave through Moses to the ancient Israelites over 3000 years ago? Come on, the growing, dynamic churches within and outside of the connection have been doing that for years. We don’t need an area of focus to tell us to feed the hunger, clothe the naked, and work to eliminate the systemic problems that lead to poverty, disease, and suffering in the world. That has always been our mission, or at least should have been.I am sure there are some positive things that come out of General Conference. I guess we do need to tweak and update the Book of Discipline on occasion. And, let’s face it, a lot of people do believe General Conference is important and relevant. But I question, that with the current size of the United Methodist Church and the advances in communications technology – is an every four-year gathering the best use of time and resources (millions of dollars) in furthering the kingdom of God and reaching those who are hurting in the world?
Oh well, Ft. Worth here I come.

From the Bishop: Keeping A Holy Lent

B. Michael Watson

Ash Wednesday was February 6 this year, and Ash Wednesday is the first day of the holy season of Lent in the Christian year. I pray that this will be a holy Lent for you and me. During this season we have the opportunity to be intentional about our preparations for the glorious celebration of Easter. Our Lenten preparations can make a difference in our ability to recognize God’s powerful victory over sin and death as we worship on Easter Sunday with Christian all over the world.We often prepare for important events because we intuitively know that proper preparation can lead to more meaningful celebration. We prepare for birthdays, anniversaries, reunions, graduations, weddings, funerals, and many other special days. If we fail to prepare well, we can fail to grasp the full significance of the big event. Our preparation is important.

Some people make Lenten preparation by giving up something in their lives. Others make Lent a season of adding something special into their lives. Many attend Ash Wednesday, Lenten, and Holy Week services as a way of preparing for Easter morning and its Good News.Let me encourage you to do something different this Lent. Find a way to prepare for Easter that causes you to remember Christ’s sacrificial love every day during this holy season. Find a way to live toward Easter that glorifies God and opens you to God’s miraculous, loving, and saving grace. Give God the chance to work in and through your life during this season of Lent so that you will rejoice in the experience of God’s mighty power to overcome the greatest obstacles in human existence.

Lent teaches us that God works through difficult circumstances to accomplish dramatic victory. God is able to roll away every stone than is placed before his children. God is in the redemption, restoration, and resurrection business. Live that faith this Lent and prepare to experience God’s glorious Easter.

Aging Well: Dealing With Senior Adult Depression

Robert Beckum

Depression may rightly be called the “shadow illness” of senior adult years. There are many possible causes of the onset of later-life depression including: the loss of a loved one (spouse, child, pet or friend), changes in physical health (disability and decline as well as illnesses such as cancer, heart disease, stroke or diabetes and dementia), and major life changes (a move, retirement, loss of mobility, diminished quality of life or increased dependency on caregivers). Many of these factors may converge to cause or to accompany the onset of senior depression, but the fact remains that depression is an illness. It is NOT A NORMAL PART of THE AGING PROCESS! Caregivers must encourage seniors, and seniors must encourage one another, to seek medical treatment for depression as an illness and not buy into the “normal part of aging” myth. The first step in successfully dealing with senior depression is to call it what it is. It is an illness (not a character flaw, personal weakness, or normal part of aging) and this illness needs sound medical treatment.

What are the signs of depression? The National Institute of Health suggests these warning signs of senior depression:Persistent sadness (lasting two or more weeks)Feeling sluggish for an extended periodExcessive worries about finances and health problemsFrequent tearfulnessFeelings of worthlessness or helplessnessUnintended weight changes (increase or decrease)Constant pacing or fidgetingDifficulty sleepingDifficulty concentratingPhysical symptoms such as pain or gastrointestinal problems (depressed seniors are more likely to complain of physical problems than to express sad, anxious or hopeless feelings)Withdrawal from usual activities——this withdrawal is usually accompanied by the explanations “It’s become too much trouble,” “I don’t feel well enough,” or “I just don’t have the energy anymore.”
Anytime older adults have signs of depression, they should see their health care provider for a complete medical check-up and explore the symptoms of depressive illness for possible treatment. These medical check-ups are easier said than done! While behavioral health care is vital for senior adults to have a full life, many factors prevent them from seeking the help they need. Fear of what family and friends might think can cause seniors to continue to suffer silently and alone. Worry over how to pay for the care they need and negative cultural stereotypes of people seeking behavioral health care can all contribute to seniors continuing to suffer in isolation.

It is not enough to name depression an “illness”. We must also take senior depression out of the “shadows” of fear, shame and ignorance and into the light of available medical treatment. One great place for available information about depression and treatment options for seniors is the website www.Seniorjournal.com. This first step will not only help you and your loved ones “deal” with senior depression but might encourage further steps helping to overcome this illness which afflicts far too many senior adults.

Rev. Robert Beckum is Vice President of Church Relations and Development Magnolia Manor.